1:1 Coaching

Work With Abby

Private, attachment-informed coaching designed to move you from your pattern, toward the relationship with yourself and others you've always wanted.

Is This For You?

You might be ready if...

  • You've read about attachment styles but don't know how to actually change yours
  • You're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns with different people
  • You want a relationship built on genuine security, not anxiety or avoidance
  • You're willing to look honestly at yourself, and want someone safe to do it with
  • You're ready to stop surviving your relationships and start actually enjoying them

What happens in a session

Every session is tailored to you. But here's what you can expect:

1

Identify your pattern

We name what's happening, specifically, clearly, without judgment.

2

Trace it to its roots

We look at where the pattern came from and what wound it's protecting.

3

Build new responses

We develop practical tools for the moments when old patterns want to take over.

4

Practice earned security

We create real-time experiences of safety, in the coaching relationship itself.

Choose Your Level of Support

Four ways to work with me

Three of these paths are built around the full 8-week course, and the difference between them is how much support you want alongside it. The fourth is coaching only, for people who already know their pattern and want to go straight at it.

Course Only

The Journey

Go at your own pace

$199

The complete Secure Attachment Journey, eight weeks of content, workbooks, and guided meditations, entirely on your schedule.

  • Full 8-week course (video + audio)
  • Weekly workbooks and reflection exercises
  • Guided meditations for each week
  • Lifetime access
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Course + Couples Coaching

Together

For you and your partner

$999

One enrollment covers both partners. Four longer sessions to work through your attachment dynamics together, with someone trained to hold the space.

  • Full 8-week course (covers both partners)
  • 4 × 75-min couples coaching calls (bi-weekly)
  • Attachment compatibility profile after session 1
  • Voice memo / text support for both partners Mon–Fri, 24-hr response window
  • Shared session recap notes after each call
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Coaching Only

The Deep Work

For when you already know the pattern

$1,000 / month

For the person who can already name their pattern and is done reading about it. No curriculum. Four weekly sessions built entirely around what is happening in your life right now. Often the next step after Guided, or the right place to start when there is one specific thing you need support with.

  • 4 × 50-min 1:1 coaching calls (weekly)
  • Sessions shaped around your situation, not a syllabus
  • Voice memo / text support Mon–Fri, 24-hr response window
  • Session recap notes after each call
  • Renew month to month, or stop after one
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Not Sure Which Is Right for You?

Book a free discovery call

A free 20-minute call to talk through where you are and which path makes the most sense. No pressure, no commitment.

Schedule a Free Discovery Call →

You'll be taken to Calendly to choose a time.

"Coaching with Abby gave me language for things I'd felt my whole life but never understood."

Past coaching client