From self-protection to deep connection. Built on attachment theory and neuroscience — for individuals and couples ready to do the real work.
One-time payment · $199
Each of the 8 weeks gives you a full lesson and a homework workbook — so you're not just learning concepts, you're actually doing the work.
Lessons taught by Abby. Watch at your own pace, as many times as you need.
Journaling prompts, reflection questions, and worksheets — including a couples exercise every week.
A meditation for each week — designed to help you integrate the lesson and regulate your nervous system between sessions.
This course follows a deliberate arc — from understanding your patterns, to healing their roots, to building the secure love you actually want.
Awareness
Learn what attachment actually means, identify your style, and understand how your nervous system has been quietly running your relationships — often without your knowledge.
Origins
Trace your patterns back to where they started. Your attachment style wasn't random — and understanding its origins is the first real step toward changing it.
Healing
The patterns that once kept you safe now keep you stuck. This week you'll learn to recognize them in real time — and begin loosening their grip.
Regulation
Secure love starts with a regulated nervous system. Learn the tools to find your window of tolerance and stay grounded when relationships get hard.
Rewiring
This is where you build new responses. You'll learn the specific behaviors that signal security — and practice interrupting old patterns with something healthier.
Connection
Most relationship conflict is actually an attachment cry. Learn how to speak and listen in a way that creates closeness instead of distance.
Repair
No relationship is without rupture. The difference between secure and insecure couples isn't whether they fight — it's whether they can repair. This week teaches you how.
Secure Love
Earned security is real — and it's yours to keep. This final week focuses on sustaining everything you've built and making secure love your new normal.
Every lesson and every workbook has two paths — one for solo healing, one for doing the work together. Wherever you are, there's a place for you here.
I've spent years studying attachment theory and watching it transform people's relationships — including my own. What I know for certain is that your patterns aren't character flaws. They're adaptations. And adaptations can change.
This course is the most direct path I know to that change. It's built on real science, real research, and the kind of honest, grounded work that actually moves the needle. I'm with you every step of the way.
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